For 37 years, I was like everybody else. On January 1, I was going to
do it. This was going to be the time. It was all going to be
different. A new year meant a clean slate. A chance to start over. To
begin anew.
I was going to, at long last, lose weight.
Only it never happened that way.
Sure,
I tried. I started whatever the latest starvation diet was. I joined
many gyms. I was there January 1, working out like a maniac. I went
several days in a row, several hours per day.
Except, like
everyone else, I burned out and never went back. By Valentine's Day,
the gym was a ghost town and I was back to my old habits.
Oh
well, maybe next year. Millions of people take this exact approach and
very few succeed. Why? I certainly don't have all the answers, but
perhaps I can provide a little insight from my own experiences.
First, stop trying to lose weight.
When
the losing of weight becomes the supreme, overriding goal, the battle
is lost before it even starts. I have come to realize that when I just
focused on losing weight, I was only treating the symptom (not the
cause) of my problem. So what was the problem?
My lifestyle was a
disaster. I could lose weight for a short period of time by taking
extreme measures, but I was not putting any new behaviors in place to
ensure the results lasted. As a result, any weight lost was immediately
gained back.
You see, most people think you need 3 things to lose weight:
-Motivation
-Discipline
-Willpower
I
have none of those things. Motivation, discipline and willpower last a
couple of weeks, at most. They will allow you to "white knuckle it" or
"gut it out" for a short period of time. But then what? You're right
back where you were. Temporary sacrifice gives you temporary results.
Over
the course of 3 1/2 years and losing and maintaining a loss of almost
400 pounds, I have realized the 3 qualities that matter most for me are:
-Persistence.
Doing the same thing over and over again. Never letting anything or
anyone get into the way of your customized routine.
-Determination. Fall down? Get back up. Gain a pound? Who cares. Get right back at it.
-Follow-through.
This is the biggest one of them all. Do what you say you're going to
do. For years, I did what a lot of people do. I spent a lot of time
and energy going around telling everyone that would listen what I needed
to do:
"I need to lose weight."
"Next year, I'm going to drop this weight."
"I need to start exercising."
But
then one day, I realized: I was wasting my time. There is no point in
convincing anyone except myself what I need to do. As the famous
advertising slogan says, just do it.
So back to this New Year's Resolution business. What do you do?
Think
about the pressure we put on ourselves. We decide sometime in November
that come January 1, we are going to wake up and transform our lives.
Because of the date on the calendar, we will immediately start eating
better, exercising daily and completely change everything all at once.
So
here are some common-sense tips from somebody who's been there. Keep
in mind, there is no right or wrong way to lose weight. My way may not
work for you. I'm not arrogant enough to think I have all the answers.
No one does.
Step 1: Stop trying to lose weight.
That's right, I said it. For years, losing weight was my only goal.
But that wears off after awhile. Eventually, the weight loss stops. Or
the scale becomes frustrating. What I had to accept, understand and
realize was that the weight was not my problem. The weight was a
symptom of an unhealthy lifestyle, not the cause of it. Make the changes
in your life that will cause you to lose weight. Changes you can live
with the rest of your life. Nothing temporary.
Step
2: Do not repeat the last time you lost weight. I once lost weight in a
very extreme and unhealthy way. Naturally, I couldn't keep it off. But
I spent the next dozen years thinking that was the only path to
success, "because it worked before." Actually, it didn't work. I
gained the weight back. That approach was a failure and should not be
repeated. Don't be like I was. Study your failures, but do not repeat
them.
Step 3: Get professional help. Make an
appointment with your family doctor. Talk about your health issues, get
it out into the open. Find out what exercise you can safely do. And
then, what was perhaps most valuable to me of all: visit a registered
dietitian. Learning about how to properly eat, what nutrients I really
needed, meals, snacks and portion control is all very boring...but it's
the truth.
And you want the truth. No more lies. No more impossible diets. No more quick fixes. No more fat burning pills.
So
don't be like I was and like everybody else is. Don't have a New
Year's Resolution to lose weight. Start your new year off right: by
taking common-sense steps toward a healthier lifestyle.
Bryan
Ganey is a motivational speaker and author of "Impossible: How I Lost
Nearly 400 Pounds Without Surgery," available in print and e-book from Amazon.com. He maintains a blog at http://www.BryanGaney.com.
Tuesday, December 31, 2013
Monday, December 30, 2013
Busting the Splenda Scam
Like many millions of other people, I buy and use Splenda "no calorie" sweetener. In my case, I buy it in granulated form, to sprinkle on my oatmeal in the morning. You have probably seen these bags in the sugar aisle at your local grocery store:
The product presents itself very clearly in the labeling as a "no calorie sweetener." The fact that it comes in large bags lends itself to the idea that you can just consume it with reckless abandon. Want to make your cereal sweeter? Pour some on! After all, it has no calories, right?
Wrong.
A little research has led me to the truth: Splenda is *not* a "no calorie sweetener." Let's examine the facts, shall we?
According to the Splenda website, 1 teaspoon of granulated Splenda has 0 calories. That's the first lie. A teaspoon of Splenda actually has 2 calories in it. However, the US Government labeling laws state that anything less than 5 calories per serving can actually be marketed as being calorie-free.
But come on. Does anyone really use just 1 teaspoon? Is that a realistic serving? Doubtful. From there, let's do the math: there are 48 teaspoons in a cup. That means one cup of Splenda has 96 calories in it.
96 calories in one cup of Splenda is much less than the 774 calories that is in 1 cup of regular sugar. However, what if you used 2 cups of Splenda thinking it is a "no calorie sweetener" 192 calories is a lot different than zero, isn't it?
So what's the solution?
The US Government should immediately revise its labeling laws to eliminate zero calorie claims. Everything has *some* calories. I will continue to use Splenda, but people shouldn't be misled into thinking it is something it is not. If I am consuming 1/4 cup of Splenda, I need to write down 24 calories in my food journal and account for it, not pretend I didn't eat any calories.
By the way, this reminds me an awful lot of the "fat-free" scam. Think your can of "fat-free" cooking spray is really fat-free? Sorry, it isn't. It's pure fat. However, because the serving size is "1/3 of a second of spray," the serving size is less than a 1/2 a gram of fat and thus qualifies under the US Government rules to be labeled "fat-free." Really. Another lie.
The bottom line: there are only two things in this world that don't have any calories: water and air.
Bryan Ganey is a motivational speaker and author of "Impossible: How I Lost Nearly 400 Pounds Without Surgery." He can be reached at bganey@gmail.com.
The product presents itself very clearly in the labeling as a "no calorie sweetener." The fact that it comes in large bags lends itself to the idea that you can just consume it with reckless abandon. Want to make your cereal sweeter? Pour some on! After all, it has no calories, right?
Wrong.
A little research has led me to the truth: Splenda is *not* a "no calorie sweetener." Let's examine the facts, shall we?
According to the Splenda website, 1 teaspoon of granulated Splenda has 0 calories. That's the first lie. A teaspoon of Splenda actually has 2 calories in it. However, the US Government labeling laws state that anything less than 5 calories per serving can actually be marketed as being calorie-free.
But come on. Does anyone really use just 1 teaspoon? Is that a realistic serving? Doubtful. From there, let's do the math: there are 48 teaspoons in a cup. That means one cup of Splenda has 96 calories in it.
96 calories in one cup of Splenda is much less than the 774 calories that is in 1 cup of regular sugar. However, what if you used 2 cups of Splenda thinking it is a "no calorie sweetener" 192 calories is a lot different than zero, isn't it?
So what's the solution?
The US Government should immediately revise its labeling laws to eliminate zero calorie claims. Everything has *some* calories. I will continue to use Splenda, but people shouldn't be misled into thinking it is something it is not. If I am consuming 1/4 cup of Splenda, I need to write down 24 calories in my food journal and account for it, not pretend I didn't eat any calories.
By the way, this reminds me an awful lot of the "fat-free" scam. Think your can of "fat-free" cooking spray is really fat-free? Sorry, it isn't. It's pure fat. However, because the serving size is "1/3 of a second of spray," the serving size is less than a 1/2 a gram of fat and thus qualifies under the US Government rules to be labeled "fat-free." Really. Another lie.
The bottom line: there are only two things in this world that don't have any calories: water and air.
Bryan Ganey is a motivational speaker and author of "Impossible: How I Lost Nearly 400 Pounds Without Surgery." He can be reached at bganey@gmail.com.
Saturday, December 14, 2013
Winners of the "Enough Is Enough" Book Contest Announced!
It was a difficult process to sift through the large volume of inspiring stories I received....but here are the 3 winners of the "Enough Is Enough" book contest. All winners will receive a paperback copy of my soon-to-be bestseller "Impossible: How I lost Nearly 400 Pounds Without Surgery."
Congratulations to Dusty Pierce, Amy Pierce and Eric Goldstein! Their stories are below:
Eric's Story
I know I am at the start of a very long journey, with a lot of hills and bumps along the way, but I know this is it. There is no looking back. I'm not going to let that happen because my family deserves more, I deserve more and I hope that I help people lose weight along the way.
Amy's Story
Congratulations to Dusty Pierce, Amy Pierce and Eric Goldstein! Their stories are below:
Eric's Story
Even though my healthy lifestyle journey started just about a month
ago, I figured I would write you anyway to tell you about it. It's the
not the first time that I started a healthier lifestyle, but its
definitely the most dedicated and most promising.
I was not always fat. As a kid I was actually what
most people called " A Stick." I was always looked at as a shy kid even
though I never saw myself as shy, I was just quiet kid. Now with
hindsight I can now say that at age 13 is when I started gaining weight.
There was no major event in my life. No family members dying, no family
abuse, no body injuries, or anything. I was just a quiet kid that
didn't have many friends and found comfort in watching TV and eating. I
guess you would call me a closet eater. I would stay up late at night,
when everybody else was asleep and watch TV and eat. Being young I was
able to stay up to 2 or 3am
and still wake up at 630am everyday to go to school. I would then come
home, watch TV and stuff my face again before my parents came home.
Before I knew it, high school came and went, and when I started college I
was probably around 260lbs. Which wasn't too bad for someone 6'2". But
the weight didn't stop there. Through out college my habits of watching
TV all night and eating blew me up. Then one day, I took deiced to take a
theater class which changed my life forever. The whole class became
friends and started hanging out outside the classroom on a nightly
basis. It was amazing. Instead of going home after school and work to
eat, I would go hang out with my friends. One of my friends was big into
fitness and we started working out right after work until the gym
closed. Even when I didn't want to go, he would find me and pull me to
the gym. After months of daily workouts, I lost a lot of weight. It was
amazing. I was having the time of my life and girls were all over me.
(Not to toot my own horn or anything) Eventually it all had to come to
end. I stopped working out with him over a girl and I started gaining
the weight back. I was back to my old habits of eating late and not
exercising. Which lead to the girl leaving too.
Eventually I got back onto my feet and I found I
girl that didn't just look at me for my looks but looked deeper into me
and loved me for me. To make a long story short, I married her in 2007.
Three years later we had our daughter. There were a lot of issues with
the pregnancy and right after with the baby, but it all turned out
great. Today she a very beautiful happy normal 3 year old. Except for
her parents being obese. I always told myself I would lose the weight
when found a girl, then it turned into when I had a kid, and now both of
those have past and I'm still morbidly obese. I just kept making
excuses after excuses and saying I would do it when, X happened.
The turning point for me, is actually a shared
turning point with my wife. We were told by a doctor not to try and get
pregnant because it wasn't worth the risk for the baby and my wife.
Right then and there in the doctors office I could see the
disappointment in my wife's eye and I was feeling the same way. Even
though its partially a joke, I always said I wanted to have 8 boys. So
hearing that we shouldn't have anymore was devastating to me. My wife
started asking questions about adoptions and surrogacy. Both
of which are out of the question for me. Then we came to the conclusion
that the only possible way to have more children was for my wife to
lose weight. Then the doctor started to say it doesn't matter if I lost
the weight because I was only concerned to him as sperm donor. Which he
didn't mean to say in a mean way, he was just being technical in the
world of baby making. But right after he said what he said, I screamed,
"of course I will lose the weight. I not going to let my wife do this
alone." Well right after that doctors appointment nothing was set in
stone yet about how we would lose the weight, but a couple weeks later,
my wife was invited to a zumba class and long story short, she got
addicted to it. With her new addiction I had to find a way to workout,
eat right, and lose the weight myself. So after thinking about it for a
while, I realized I could turn a hobby of mine into a weight loss
regimen.
I know I am at the start of a very long journey, with a lot of hills and bumps along the way, but I know this is it. There is no looking back. I'm not going to let that happen because my family deserves more, I deserve more and I hope that I help people lose weight along the way.
Amy's Story
My name is Amy Curtis and this is my weight loss/healthy lifestyle change story, thus far.
I've
always been a big kid. When I was in 5th grade, my teacher asked me,
"Amy, why are you so heavy?" I didn't know what to say so I said the
first thing that came to my mind, which was a total lie-- "I don't have
much of an opportunity to exercise." The teacher then had me walk up
and down the stairs at school when I would complete my work. It was
humiliating.
Obesity carried on into adulthood.
One day in 2008, at age 30, for some unknown reason, the reality that I
weighed 331 pounds hit me. I joined a weight loss support group called
TOPS (take off pounds sensibly). I lost about 20 pounds and then got
stuck
there because the only lifestyle change I had made was attending a
weekly meeting.
In 2011, I bought a new journal
and it had a space to fill in a goal. I randomly wrote "Be happy". And
so, when the first of the month rolled around, I focused on my own
happiness. I am normally a people pleaser and feel guilty if people
aren't happy with me or if I haven't done enough for them. But with this
new "Be happy" month, I focused on what *I* wanted. I let hurts go. I
ignored what others wanted from me if it would hinder what *I* wanted.
It really was a selfish time, but it was exactly
what I needed. I found myself dancing in the kitchen like a teenager. I
found myself making better food choices and going for walks for the
alone time. Although I couldn't physically run, I could feel the run in
me and I knew that when the weight came off, I would run.
Speaking of weight coming off, it was. I lost 81 pounds. I walked/ran in two 5k's, which was a huge thing for me.
I
was only 60 pounds from goal when my dad was diagnosed with terminal,
stage 4 lung cancer. I could no longer be happy no matter how hard I
tried. There was no dancing in the kitchen. Instead, there were tears
and many, many trips to the doctor with dad for treatments and tests.
I regained 14 pounds, felt like a failure, and just hovered there.
Eleven
months later, I accepted the fact that I could do nothing to make dad
well and that I needed to take care of myself too. I started journaling
again, having a mentor read my food diary, and started training for
another 5k.
I only lacked a couple of pounds
from being back down to my lowest when we discovered at the age of 35,
surprise, we were going to be parents again. I am now almost half
through my pregnancy. One thing I have learned is that things are never
going to be perfectly the way you want them....but however things are,
you must take care of YOU, because you are important.
Thank you for reading!
Dusty's Story
My name is Dusty. I have been
bigger my whole life. I used food as my comfort to deal with my
surroundings growing up. The things I had no control over and chose food
to comfort me and it filled my void. It made me feel better for the
moment. Little did I know when I was younger that this was going to be
so bad for me as I got older. I got hypertension (high blood pressure)
at 16 and started my 1st pill. Then I went on to get Cellulitis. And now
up to taking 3 blood pressure pills. I started learning about foods and
healthy stuff. I learned how bad things are for you. Even the things
that aren't considered junk food are still filled with junk. I was 29
years old and at my heaviest weight which was 530lbs & on a bi-pap
machine & oxygen at night. I couldn't believe my eyes. I never saw
myself that big. I mean I knew I was heavy but when you put a number on
it, it just makes it so much more real. When we look at ourselves in the
mirror we do NOT see ourselves for what we really look like. I hated
myself. I was so disgusted with who I let myself become. I haven't lost
as much as Id like. And I have weighed myself in months. But as of 4
months ago I had lost 45 lbs. I was so happy. Even though its not as
much as I had hoped. I was at least a -45lbs and not a +45lbs. I will
take it. I also have lost the oxygen tanks! I no longer need them! I am
and will continue to keep going and keep motivating myself. Since the
last weigh in I have joined a gym and have been working out and getting
smaller portions and exercising. Trying to get healthier. I have just
started prepping my food! I am so excited and so determined to get to
where I can be healthy. And hopefully off medicine. I don't even want to
be skinny really. Just healthy & happy. I have been smoke free for
over a year. I know if I can do that I can do this!!! You are such an
inspiration to me. As well as others who have achieved great weight loss.
Congratulations to all of the winners!
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